A Moment From De Sales

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Jesus wants us to be who we are by becoming all we are!

Nativity Prep, a middle school for enthusiastic students from low income families, is supported by the Oblates of St Francis de Sales and has this motto: “Be who you are and be that well.”  This is from the writings of St. Francis de Sales.  His complete saying has these added words: “Be who you are and be that well as a witness to the master craftsman who created you.”

De Sales wants everyone to understand that he or she is a unique individual.  There is no one else like you on this planet.   It is as if God broke the mold that resembles you, making it clear that there never was and never again will there be another you.  You stand alone as a gift to this world and a person of invaluable worth.

 Since we, as individuals, are so distinct, we must assume responsibility by taking our lives into our own hands and handling it with extreme care.  When we take the time to cultivate our unique gifts, we become who God wants us to become.

Our uniqueness flows outwardly from our gifts and talents which help build our self- worth and our self-confidence.  While inwardly we become who we are when we realize we are charged with the splendor of God’s image and likeness.

Our gifts and talents help each person to sing the song that no one else will sing, and help everyone to dance the dance that no one else will dance.  It is here that each will be “a witness to the master craftsman who created us.”

Hildegard of Bingen, a saintly mystic, expands De Sales words by adding: “Become who you are, by becoming all that you are. We understand so little of what goes on around us because we don’t use what is within us.”  She is writing of grace, the Holy Spirit’s promptings, and God’s nearness.

Hildegard asks that we reflect within on God’s image and likeness every day, especially through our  actions and words.  She uses the example of plants receiving the sun’s light and warmth and transforming them into energy and life.  In the same way, the divine presence, as creator, connects with us, the created.

When the outward you and inward you connects in this way, Jesus is present in our world and shines through us everywhere we go.  And God, our creator is delighted with us, because Jesus his son is seen walking again on this earth.

Alone, we are who we are, but joined with our creator our person takes on that luster of holiness capable of miracles – transforming our small acts into great acts of praise to our God. God’s image and likeness together with our identity, our gifts and talents, our joys and sorrows are reflected as one.

“Be who you are and be that well as a witness to the master craftsman who created you.”

-St. Francis De Sales